01 / Understanding your reality
Name what’s happening.
Notice the impact of the drinking on your life and begin separating your experience from self-doubt.
A self-paced course for women living with a partner's drinking
The Impossible
Choice
You don’t have to decide your whole future today.
Find clarity, reconnect with what you need, and choose your next step—without pressure to stay or leave.
Get the course — $47$47 USD · One-time purchase · Downloadable videos + workbooks
Enrollment is open. $47 USD plus applicable tax.
Enrollment is open. $47 USD plus applicable tax.
There is room for you in this decision
When staying feels hard.
And leaving feels impossible.
Maybe you’re tired of wondering whether it’s really that bad. Maybe you’re holding everything together while quietly asking, “What about me?”
This course isn’t about finding the right words to make him change. It’s about giving yourself space to see what’s happening, understand your options, and take one useful step that belongs to you.
Six modules. Your pace.
A clearer way forward.
02 / The decision framework
Make room for your priorities.
Explore staying and leaving without forcing an answer before you are ready.
03 / Protection & preparation
Prepare without rushing.
Organize questions, documentation and support needs. Preparing does not mean you have decided to leave.
04 / The staying action plan
Stay connected to yourself.
Explore boundaries, detachment and small actions within your control if you are staying for now.
05 / Understanding the science
Trade self-blame for understanding.
Learn about alcohol’s effects and reflect on your own needs without excusing harmful behavior.
06 / Special situations
Find your next relevant step.
Consider the concerns that fit your situation, including children, finances, recovery and support.
Practical support you can return to.
- Six recorded video lessons with English caption files.
- Six printable workbooks with space to reflect and plan.
- Six quick guides to help turn reflection into a next step.
- Links to six optional interactive companion tools.
Download the materials and keep your personal copies. Watch and work through them in your own time. The companion tools use separate websites and require an internet connection.
Choose a device, inbox and storage location that feel safe for you. Downloaded files and email receipts may be visible to anyone who shares access to them.
A note from Jen
You don’t have to lose yourself
trying to save someone else.
Hi, I’m Jen. I used to believe I could save him by loving him harder. Then I learned to let go, set boundaries, and find myself again. Now I help others living with an alcoholic find clarity and create their own path forward—whether that means staying or leaving.
This course is a place to begin that work. No perfect answers required.
The Impossible Choice / Downloadable edition
One purchase.
Space to take your next step.
$47 USD
One-time payment. No subscription. Applicable tax added at checkout.
All six videos, six workbooks and six quick guides, plus links to the optional companion tools.
Get instant access — $47Pay securely through Payhip with Square. After purchase, Payhip emails your download link. No ChatGPT account is required. Payhip and Square process checkout information to complete your purchase; we receive order details to provide access and support.
14-day refund policy. If the course isn’t right for you, email hello@jenniferrandallyoung.com within 14 calendar days of purchase for a full refund—even if you’ve downloaded or used it. Your statutory rights are unaffected.
A few things you might be wondering.
Will this tell me whether to stay or leave?
No. It offers reflection and practical steps to help you understand your own needs and options. The decision remains yours.
Do I need a ChatGPT account?
No. Your purchase includes an emailed Payhip download link for all course materials. Download and keep your personal copies; no ChatGPT account is required.
Is this therapy or a safety plan?
No. This is educational material, not therapy, addiction treatment, legal or financial advice, or a personalized safety plan. Professional support may be important alongside it. If you are in immediate danger, seek local emergency help when it is safe to do so.
Can I work through it while I’m staying?
Yes. You do not need to decide to leave to start focusing on your own wellbeing, boundaries and next steps.
How do I ask a question or request a refund?
Email hello@jenniferrandallyoung.com. Refund requests are accepted within 14 calendar days of purchase, including after downloading or using the materials.